I HAD SEX WITH MY EX

I met Sam in a club and we went out for about a month. He was gorgeous and we had an OK relationship, but we both knew it wasn't going to be long-term. However, I was really upset when he ended it and two weeks later I went round to his house to chat about everything. He said he liked having sex with me but didn't want a relationship. I could see what he was saying - we'd always had amazing sex - and before I knew it, we were doing it again. I always thought I wouldn't sleep with a man unless I was going out with him, and especially not an ex, but because we'd had sex before it didn't seem so bad. And somehow I think it made our break-up easier. I guess breaking your own rules is all part of life and growing up. I don't think I'd do it again but I could never say never. It depends how good the sex is!